A love for meeting passionate people, exploring new ideas and striving for a life full of adventure.
Philosophy and politics
It can surprise new friends to discover that I consider most of my ventures to be “creative endeavours”. Much like an artist who is compelled to paint a painting, it has been that process of creation – of taking ideas and making them real and affecting other people with them, which has been the most exciting part of being a founder.
However, now I have reached middle age, with the grown up responsibilities that go with that – the desire for a better standard of living and greater financial security has begun to grow. This has meant a shift in the way I lead my ventures, now setting longer term goals and trying to create organisations that thrive for decades or more.
Whilst I believe that we all have a right to create wealth, security and well-being for our families – I also believe we should strive to do so in a way that lifts up and empowers other people. It’s an important feature of my current venture that we try and do this for everyone involved in it.
I also believe that people who have succeeded in creating some security have an obligation to support those less privileged, because if you have time or money and don’t use it to help others, it’s like watching someone fall in front of you and not lending them a hand to get up. A friend and impressive company founder who I worked with said this to me years ago when we first met, and it left a lasting impression.
I enjoy meeting passionate and positive people, and could spend hours drinking coffee with them or going on a walk, to learn about their interests and aspirations. I particularly enjoy the company of people who will challenge the way I think and persuade me to change my mind about something, or help me learn something new.
Mountain hiking has always been a pleasure, and whilst I haven’t scaled anything much larger than the peaks of the United Kingdom, I love the parallels between it and the process of creating a new venture. At first a mountain can seem intimidating with the summit so far away. The secret, of course, is to break the walk down in to stages; by focusing only on the next ridge, or the next natural place for rest, with a little tenacity – you eventually arrive on the top with breath intact. Of course, sometimes when you arrive, you can’t see anything – are cold and hungry and wish to be at home. And, there is always the risk of getting lost, or becoming distracted on route and not leaving yourself with enough time. This is the experience of most founders too.
At 16 years old I watched a film called Dropzone at the cinema with my friend Ed, it was essentially about skydiving. The freedom and beauty of the skydiver in the closing credits, silhouetted against a sunset was breathtaking. A week later we had signed up for a parachuting course and had completed our first jumps. Although I did not become qualified at that time, later in life I returned with some passion to the sport, became qualified and completed many hundreds of skydives around the world. After a bad-landing in a Spanish field where a gas pipe hidden in the long grass shattered my leg and put me on crutches for 18 months – I got fat. That pushed what should have been a short holiday from the sport in to a multi-year sabbatical. However, I do intend to return to the skies in the near future, and resume my interest in the sport.
Visiting new places has always been a significant part of my life, and I’ve been lucky to travel to many of the European countries, many states within the USA, several Caribbean islands, China, Hong-Kong and Japan – also Africa. However, the United Kingdom is so rich with history and beauty, that a lot of exploration continues here – “at home”.
In 2019 an Oxford Professor friend introduced me to sailing on the ocean and after years of my Uncle John, a sailing fanatic who lives in the USA, talking to me of its magic. I may now finally be convinced, it turns out all I needed was a few days sailing round the Greek islands. I now intend to achieve my day skipper qualification and sail myself. The combination of freedom, adventure, and the learning required to safely sail a boat over any distance is, it turns out, quite wonderful.
I have a wide range of musical tastes, and have seen many musical performances, my favourite being the London Symphony Orchestra play John Williams classics at the Royal Albert Hall in 2018. However, I mostly listen to electronic music. As a young man I listened at every opportunity to Future Sound of London, Banco De Gaia, Underworld, Prodigy, Astralasia, Orbital, Global Communications, The Orb and ambient music from Kim Cascone’s Silent Records label. I now spend a lot of time discovering new electronic music on Spotify and Deezer playlists. One of my favourite artists right now is called Tycho from California, a place I have loved visiting more than once. The Internet radio station Radio Paradise, also from California, is played several hours a week and has been a source of listening pleasure for years.
Although a fussy-eater as a child, I have grown up to love fine dining and have eaten in many wonderful restaurants all over the world. I am often the first to suggest that a great restaurant would be an excellent place to meet and discuss a new idea. My favourite restaurant right now is The Forest Side at Grasmere in the Lake District.
There’s lots I need to improve about myself, as is the way for most of us, and I am trying to do so. I believe I am fairly self aware and actively try to work on those things that I know are making me less of a person than I could be. I’m therefore an advocate for personal coaching because sometimes when we are “tied up” we can neither see some of the knots ourselves or reach the first ones without help. I have always struggled with the idea of making time for my own fitness, and have also endured a complicated relationship with food, however, through years of work on myself – I am now making real progress with this.
Growing-up and education
I was brought up in a working class household in a small village in the Yorkshire Dales. Even though my parents had their own challenges to work through they succeeded in bestowing on to me three tremendous privileges, for which I am very grateful: (1) Understanding the importance of hard work – because both of my parents are perfect examples of “grafters” (2) Treating other people the way I’d like to be treated and (3) Being my own man and carving out my own future.
I was educated at a state school, and had a small circle of friends, many of whom were outsiders or geeks like me. Most lived many miles away and I discovered that hitch-hiking was a fun, free and sometimes adventure-packed way to travel to them. There was a thrill of not knowing how long it would take to be picked-up, who was going to pick you up and what conversations would emerge. I would go to hitch-hike hundreds of times and though they are an increasingly rare sight on our roads, I still routinely pick-up hitch-hikers by way of reciprocation.
As a teenager I worked at an indoor-market actively selling souvenirs to tourists, washed-dishes several times a week in a busy restaurant kitchen, worked as a waiter, was a commis chef, cleaned cars, cut-grass, walked dogs and most profitably provided computing support, and also desktop publishing services. These jobs gave me the cash I needed to buy the computers I craved to learn about as a teenager. Importantly, I developed an understanding of the value of money, the value of hard-work and how organisations can treat people good and bad.
At 15 years old I became unconvinced about how traditional education was going to help me get what I wanted in the real world and started to lose interest in it. I started to “skive” off school to spend time with older friends who had already left and to mess about on computers. Still, I somehow managed to get decent grades in exams the following year.
Although I did start “A-Levels”, I left soon after to explore full-time employment in the marketing department of a financial institution. When I succeeded in getting them to register a domain name, but was otherwise dismayed at the speed at which they wanted to build a web site in 1994/1995, I decided to leave and created my first full time venture with some guys I met through hitchhiking. I had zero financial support, with the exception of food parcels from the woman who would later go on to be my wife and who I met on Internet Relay Chat.
My education from that point has been largely self-acquired, I continue to read lots, play with and test out new ideas, and continue to push my knowledge by spending time with bright people. Every venture has also given me rich opportunities to learn something new.
I live in the Lake District, Cumbria – one of the most beautiful locations in the United Kingdom, blessed with forests, mountains, rivers and of course lakes. The area is easy on the eye, and has inspired many artists, poets and writers – it is also the outdoor activities centre of the UK. In summer, I often feel a palpable thrill, simply looking at the mountains, many of which I have climbed, and many of which I hope to do so.